“I know how incredibly hard it is to say goodbye to someone who was once such a big part of your world…..”-Keanu Reeves

I know how incredibly hard it is to say goodbye to someone who was once such a big part of your world. The end of a relationship can leave you feeling lost, confused, and full of questions that don’t always have clear answers. But in the midst of all the pain, I need you to remember something very important — you are strong. You are resilient. And you are more than capable of moving forward. The chapter of your life with Alexandra has reached its natural conclusion, and while that may feel like an ending, it’s also a beginning. It’s the first page of a brand new story — one that you get to write, fully and freely. You now have space to rediscover yourself, to reconnect with who you truly are when no one else is shaping your identity. This is your moment to rebuild, to grow, and to become even more of the incredible person you’re meant to be.

It’s okay — more than okay — to grieve. You poured love, energy, and hope into a relationship that mattered to you, and that’s not something you simply walk away from without feeling its absence. Allow yourself to feel. Let the sadness, the anger, the confusion move through you — and then let it go. Don’t let this heartbreak define you or limit your future. You are not just someone who lost love — you are someone who has *loved*, deeply and sincerely, and that in itself is a beautiful thing. You are a person with layers of depth, talent, compassion, and heart. The love you carry within you is rare and powerful, and it deserves to be met with the same kind of intention and depth. Please don’t ever forget that. As you begin to heal, remember that the right person — someone who truly *sees* you — is still out there. Someone who will meet your love with equal passion, who will hold your heart gently and never make you feel like you're too much or not enough.

 

You deserve a love that feels like home — safe, warm, and full of light. Someone who doesn’t just tolerate your quirks, but loves them. Someone who listens to your silence as much as your words. A person who celebrates your victories, comforts you through your struggles, and sees your potential even when you forget it yourself. Love like that exists, and you are absolutely worthy of it. So please don’t settle for anything less than what your soul longs for. I know it might take time, and the waiting can feel lonely, but don’t let the loneliness convince you to accept less than the kind of love that sets your soul on fire. Trust the timing of your life. Trust that everything is aligning in ways you can’t yet see.

 

While you wait — while you heal — turn inward and pour that love into yourself. Reconnect with the things that make your spirit feel alive: your passions, your creativity, your quiet joys. Find peace in your solitude and strength in your self-love. You are already whole, even without another person by your side. Fall in love with the parts of yourself that you once overlooked, and remember that you are more than worthy — not just of love, but of a deep, lasting happiness. One day, you will look back on this moment and see how it shaped you, how it prepared you for the love you were always meant to receive. And until that day comes, know that you are deeply loved, valued beyond words, and deserving of every beautiful thing life still has in store for you.